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Olliolli all we know lyrics5/2/2023 ![]() Thank goodness he wasn’t advertising for a surgeon, marksman or airline pilot. “I felt it was pretty daft,” says Neil from Deal in Kent. Quite right too.īut when takeaway owner Neil Maynard asked for a £25k a year manager, the Facebook ad was blocked because he specified he wanted someone with “experience”. IT’S par for the course these days that you can’t discriminate against race, age, gender etc when advertising a job. In other words, if he’d stayed with his wife and led a quiet life, he’d have found the media glare very easy to avoid. “No, I wouldn’t have done it . . . ultimately what matters is your private life and your anonymity.”Īlternatively, he could have chosen not to have an affair and, subsequently, not dated a far younger woman with a cracking figure and a penchant for posing in her underwear. He says: “Would I have done Bake Off if I’d known all this stuff was going to happen, the loss of my private life? He then went on to have a relationship with barmaid Summer Monteys-Fullam, 30 years his junior. Paul had an affair with co-judge Marcela Valladolid during his marriage, before moving on to having a relationship with Summer Monteys-Fullam (pictured)Credit: Splash The potential future “Mrs Bellfield” knows his two “whole life” sentences means their relationship will never be truly tested. So when the drama ends and the mundanity of daily life begins, it’s never long before the ex-con has a look of “prison was better than this”. It was always, ‘Will they let me in to see him?’ ‘What’s his lawyer going to say?’ ‘Will he get paroled?’ All these super-dramatic, melodramatic things.” “Nobody came home after work and took off his dirty socks and left them on the floor. You’re free,” she says, adding that the relationship always feels like the first flush of romance because, “they could not have a normal life with them. “So you’re always in a state of control because you’re the one who’s on the outside. You’re always in a state of control because you’re the one who’s on the outside. In her book Women Who Love Men Who Kill, author Sheila Isenberg conducted in-depth interviews with several women “in love” with men in prison and said that, without exception, they were all damaged by a form of abuse in their earlier life and liked the idea of a relationship with a man who can’t actually hurt them because he’s locked up. Quite often, the prisoner turns out to be the more balanced person in the relationship. ![]() There will always be sad and lonely people who fixate on the drama of being involved with someone so infamously unavailable.Īnd if you want to see it first hand, then check out the compelling fly-on-the-prison-wall TV show called Love After Lockup, which follows the misfortunes of couples who meet while one of them is in jail, and then have to function in the outside world once the sentence is over. So, in that respect, she’s safe to dream up whatever deluded fantasy she likes about her warped “relationship” with a man who has a long history of hating women. What she actually knows is that Levi can’t physically or mentally hurt her because, quite rightly, he’s locked up. In the meantime, what of his bride-to-be, who reckons he’s “changed”, apparently? She says: “I don’t know Levi from 2002, I know the Levi of now.” So if Boris Johnson et al want a vote-winning move before the next election, stopping monsters like Bellfield from marrying in prison would be an excellent start. So, given that conjugal rights aren’t allowed, why can’t the Government also find a way to flatly outlaw marriage for a lifer like Bellfield?Īnyone in for a short term can marry once they’ve served their time and been released, if they so wish.īut the “high security” Category A inmates whose crimes have wrecked lives shouldn’t be able to enjoy the liberties afforded to the law-abiding. Isn’t prison supposed to be a punishment? “Given the magnitude and nature of his brutal crimes, it will turn many taxpayers’ stomachs to think that their money is being used to fund such a grotesque union,” says David Spencer, director of the Centre for Crime Prevention. It defies belief that a man who deprived his victims Milly Dowler, Amelie Delagrange and Marsha McDonnell of the right to enjoy their own wedding days, should potentially be allowed the human right to experience the same.
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